Stop guessing why it happened. Start understanding — and rebuild from truth, not confusion.

The Root Cause Mentoring Intensive is a private, two-session experience that helps you uncover why the affair happened, what internal system failed, and how to fix it for good.

Go deeper than the surface. Find what truly broke inside.

Most people who’ve had an affair say things like “I was lonely,” “We were disconnected,” or “It just happened.”

Those are emotional truths, but they’re not the whole truth.

Until you understand what actually broke inside you, you’ll stay stuck in the same patterns, and your spouse will never feel safe again.

This Intensive gives you clarity, structure, and a plan.

It replaces guilt with understanding and gives you a way to show your spouse real change through action.

What you'll gain

A clear, practical understanding of why your affair happened

Insight into the emotional and behavioral systems that failed

A personalized System Redesign Plan built from your story

Confidence to explain your “why” credibly to your spouse or partner

The first real step toward rebuilding trust — and rebuilding yourself

What's Included

  • Pre-session Root Cause Worksheet
  • 90-minute RCA Discovery Session (Via Telephone)
  • Personalized System Redesign Plan (PDF)
  • 45-minute Follow-Up Review Session
  • Optional email check-in at 2–3 weeks

Your Investment

The Root Cause Mentoring Intensive is a two-session private process designed to give you clarity, structure, and a plan you can act on immediately.

Investment: $397 (Includes both private sessions, your personalized System Redesign Plan, and follow-up support.)

You’re not buying another program. Instead, you’re investing in understanding what broke and learning how to rebuild it for good.

How it works

Step 1: RCA Discovery Session (90 minutes)

You’ll complete a short worksheet before the session.

Together, we’ll walk through your story and identify key patterns, triggers, and system failures, along with the emotional habits that made your choices possible.

Step 2: Personalized System Redesign Plan

After the session, I’ll analyze everything and create your written System Redesign Plan.
It outlines what broke, what needs to change, and the steps to start rebuilding.

Step 3: Follow-Up Review Session (45 minutes)

We’ll talk again to go through your plan, refine it together, and commit to next steps that move you toward real growth and repair.

Who's it for

  • Unfaithful partners who want to understand why it happened
  • Those who feel stuck repeating old explanations
  • People who want to rebuild credibility with their spouse
  • Individuals ready for honesty, not self-blame

Why this process works

You can’t rebuild what you don’t understand.

The RCA Intensive blends logic and empathy. It's similar structured thinking used in engineering, applied to human behavior.

Instead of vague promises, you’ll leave with a clear map of what caused the breakdown and how to prevent it from ever happening again.

FAQ

What exactly is the Root Cause Mentoring Intensive?

It’s a two-session private mentoring process that helps you identify why your affair happened, what emotional or behavioral systems failed, and how to rebuild them through a personalized action plan.

Is this therapy?

No. This is structured mentoring focused on insight and change. It complements therapy but zeroes in on understanding patterns, accountability, and rebuilding credibility with your spouse.

Who is this best suited for?

It’s designed for unfaithful partners who want to go beyond surface explanations, take responsibility, and create lasting change both personally and relationally.

How is this different from your other programs?

The Intensive is highly personalized. Instead of general guidance, you’ll get a one-on-one deep dive into your story and a custom System Redesign Plan based on your specific patterns and needs.

What if my spouse isn’t involved in this process?

That’s perfectly fine. The Intensive is an individual process focused on your growth and clarity. When you understand what went wrong and can explain how you’re changing, that insight becomes a powerful step toward rebuilding trust later.

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Private. Compassionate. Results-focused.
Start by uncovering your “why” and leave with a plan to rebuild from it.

Start your private two-session Intensive for $397

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